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Slaps.

Tricia Lott Williford December 7, 2022 No Comments

Our family schedule now allows for exactly two dinners together each week. Two nights a week, I pull out all [...]

Baby Ben, a Digital Robot, & My First Go at Grandparenting

Tricia Lott Williford November 18, 2022 No Comments

My memory-keeper apps brought up this story from a year ago, when we got to know Baby Ben the digital [...]

Too Soon for Neuter Jokes, Mom.

Tricia Lott Williford November 9, 2022 1 Comment

The puppies were spayed and neutered yesterday. Molly’s was laparoscopic, two small incisions, so she seems to be doing well. [...]

Dynamic Duos and “The Guy with the Hoe”

Tricia Lott Williford October 31, 2022 3 Comments

Today makes seventeen halloweens. And I have very little to do with any of it. I’m now the comfy lady [...]

Thoughts on Prom Night

Tricia Lott Williford April 24, 2022 7 Comments

I was standing on the sidelines, technically behind the sidelines, tucked into a grove of pine trees. Anywhere else I [...]

Brick Wall

Tricia Lott Williford January 28, 2022 4 Comments

We are at the life stage where the boys come home late at night after a shift at work or [...]

Baby Ben, a Digital Robot, & My First Go at Grandparenting

Tricia Lott Williford November 18, 2021 4 Comments

I don’t know if I’ve mentioned this recently, but Tuck is in tenth grade. He has far surpassed my height, [...]

Gentlemen’s Academy

Tricia Lott Williford September 19, 2021 8 Comments

Somehow, I have become the mom sitting by the mirrors outside the men’s dressing room, while the sons try on [...]

The Things We Might Say

Tricia Lott Williford September 14, 2021 4 Comments

If she tells you she wishes her car got better gas mileage, that doesn’t mean she wishes she’d never learned [...]

On Dating the Daughters

Tricia Lott Williford September 29, 2020 6 Comments

“Mom, I asked her to be my girlfriend. But don’t worry – I talked to her dad already.” “You asked [...]

We Are Trying to Be Civilized.

Tricia Lott Williford June 24, 2020 5 Comments

Maybe you’ve seen this story that’s circulating on social media: “Years ago, anthropologist Margaret Mead was asked by a student [...]

So Much “Leisure Time”

Tricia Lott Williford May 1, 2020 2 Comments

Back when I was navigating the long days with little people, some researchers endeared themselves to me with a released [...]

Ranch Dressing and Orgasms

Tricia Lott Williford April 23, 2020 8 Comments

“Mom, did you know they make ranch dressing seasoning?” one son says. “I feel like she bought that already,” says [...]

Our Loudest Easter Story

Tricia Lott Williford April 11, 2020 7 Comments

I wanted to send this story to you on Easter morning or the night before, but things got away from [...]

Locked in a Bedroom: A Good Friday Gone Wrong

Tricia Lott Williford April 8, 2020 2 Comments

It’s been more than a decade since this Good Friday situation, the day Baby Tyler locked Toddler Tucker and me [...]

The Very Definition

Tricia Lott Williford March 30, 2020 1 Comment

Looking through some old journals tonight, I found this dialogue from four-year-old Tucker: “Mommy, let’s make a train. Tyler [...]

Sparkly, Shiny Promises

Tricia Lott Williford March 24, 2020 5 Comments

A few years ago, I kept things lively with a special treat for the boys each day of spring break. [...]

“Don’t Use Her Name.”

Tricia Lott Williford February 20, 2020 7 Comments

My son witnessed an assault against a young woman in his P.E. Class. A situation of a young man wielding [...]

Nothing says Christmas Like Nipples

Tricia Lott Williford December 19, 2019 3 Comments

The good news is they’re a hit with all the men at my house. Happy Merry Making. May your nipples [...]

He Remembers It Differently

Tricia Lott Williford November 22, 2019 2 Comments

Timehop is a lovely invention of an app. I love how it gently knocks on the door of my mind [...]

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